In the world of therapy, coaching, healing, high-performance, counseling, and consulting...

Ethical Providers and "the market" desperately need an accurate, comprehensive, coherent, compelling and care-full meta-narrative to cut through the noise and misdirection of the current information landscape.

This is the kind of emergent, creative thought leadership we need, as opposed to people who want to be "thought leaders" because it's recommended marketing, without putting in the world of real leadership. To them we say, listen to your imposter-syndrome, it's a clear signal.

Human Beings: The Mind, The Body and the Self

This graphic is a lot, and at the same time holds a lot. Understanding this, at a core level, will translate into your ability to create content, lead conversations and help the marketplace ascend beyond the noise/unhelpful information to actually understand why people are struggling to change, relate, and live the lives they crave. This framework unites cutting edge neuroscience, psychology and ancient wisdom to offer a way to have more effective public conversations, and to make things that move the needle forward.

Performing Parts

When we've had chronic misattunement, developmental wounds and trauma, and have developed wiring protection over connection, then it's going to manifest in a regulatory challenge of some kind. Addictions of all kinds fall under this umbrella, including the addiction to power and control that has now become such a huge problem (even for "in-recovery" substance addictions). When we grow up prioritizing performance over authentic expression for safety & belonging, or have a misattuned environment, our Protective Parts will control the show, and it will manifest in power issues.

What are misattunement signals?

This wheel is not the place we want to be, but so often the place we find ourselves. The beauty is, if we can see these behaviors as 'signals' that we're misattuned, then we can get curious about what feelings are jumbled or confused, what's really going on, and what we need. As we grow stronger in self-regulation and secure relating, we'll have less and less judgement when we do find ourselves on the Wheel of Misattunement, and it'll be a quick adjustment and repair before we're deepening connection again, and enjoying that state of ventral vagal goodness.

Agreement or Something Else?

 You're in one of these quadrants at any given moment, in all relating you do intimately & professionally as a therapist or coach.

This webinar will be an overview of Betty Martin's brilliant Wheel of Consent, as it applies to customer relationships, marketing and your role as a therapist/coach and human in the process of helping anyone. You'll never have considered things like this before, and the result? 

You'll be influencing powerfully from attunement and not unconsciously from anything else. You'll also be able to help your market capacitate to spot/feel anyone who's offering them things from the shadow land energy.